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Life is love. Before getting into the topic, let me announce that we will continue with four more one-hour webinars covering different topics, and in parallel we will begin — we'll see how we do it, whether it will be in the same week a webinar and a workshop, or we'll do one week a webinar and another week a workshop on the first topic.
So the topics we've already outlined in the webinar as an introduction, we will work on in a three-hour workshop where you will actively participate.
So here I respond, I speak, but in the workshop the emphasis will be on your work and I will only guide you on how to work on yourselves in three hours of online work.
So you will think, reflect, take notes, and share what you want. Something just with me or something with everyone, depending on how you decide, and this will be your own work on your own life, past lives, mission, loves, emotions, and everything.
So this is what we announce: there will be four more webinars and a total of six three-hour workshops.
So now, welcome to a conversation about love. Please, all questions are noted. I will give an introduction and then we will work on questions because it's easier, more interactive, so nobody falls asleep and we get straight to what interests you. Because if I start elaborating on everything that happens to me and everything I've lived through, all my experiences, we could go off into another story. So I prefer to answer your questions.
I never thought I would end my third trip around the world in India, but it was said — and when I say "said," I never know how it comes to me, but sometimes it comes through people who are messengers. There are people who consciously don't know, don't have answers, but unconsciously they receive messages for people they meet on their path, and it doesn't matter if they know them or not, they have to transmit the message. This used to happen to me often and I never understood until I was on the other side, until a person I didn't know transmitted a message to me: a tour guide in Atacama, Chile. When everyone moved away to take photos, I was taking photos next to him, he approached me and said, "I don't want to scare you, but I have a message for you." I said, "From whom?" He said, "Look, I am a messenger. Since I was a child I have received messages for people I see. So now a message has come to me for you." And he told me many messages, it was real. About my life there in the desert, because he told me this was my first life there in Atacama. I said, "What? Here in the desert?" He said, "Yes, but not now, you were a priestess. Your first life was as a priestess in the civilization that existed here in Atacama, beneath all this desert, and it existed in parallel with the civilization of Atlantis — another culture that our scientists still haven't found, haven't discovered." So, because I was a priestess, because I chose to be a priestess from my first life, all other lives carry a seal, that this is the most important mission in my life.
I can be an actress, I can be many other professions, but at some point in life the message from the other side to help always appears. And this is happening to me very strongly now in India. I came to India for love, I returned for love, which started two years ago, but being here I also understood that they need me a lot, because it's a very different mentality, a very different culture. I need to learn from them, but I have lived here, in Kashmir, 200 years before Christ, and I also had two lives with my current partner — or current success, we still don't know if it's current, there is current, this is also karma.
And now I'm recovering through Ayurveda, because I see there are things I'm obsessed with. I never studied Ayurveda, but since I was a child I wanted to know about Ayurveda. And when I arrived here, I started talking, and I found people to create a line of Ayurvedic cosmetics, to start healings using Ayurveda. And yesterday, by chance, I found that there exists a whole range of Ayurveda, a line of Ayurveda for rejuvenation, which I knew nothing about, and now I begin to remember that yes, I knew this, but it's exactly this line. So life has many little things we don't understand. And they say life is lived forward, but understood backward. Only when it has been lived can you begin to understand it: why? And you can see patterns, and you can see the diagram of your life, karmic, dharmic, only when you have already lived it, not before.
So, about love, I have had many cases where people make a lot of mistakes, but I didn't know they were mistaken until I saw it all play out. And you don't have many cases to see what is reflection, what is mirror. Then you begin to understand. Many people told me: "Oh, I had relationships, but none were good, none were soulmate, none were twin flame." Twin are twins, I don't know, I guess everything gets mixed up a bit with English. But we have soulmate, which is a companion of the soul; we have twin flame; and we have life partner. Sometimes — but this is one in a million cases — these three can be the same person. But normally they are three different people, because each plays a role at different moments in your life.
At different moments in your life, people appear who are for a period, for you to learn something, for you to advance, for you to understand. And then, when you have learned, if the relationship is toxic, you simply leave it; if the relationship is good, it can stay forever. With twin flames, we are taking actions to raise universal consciousness and to reach a higher vibration.
So I hope you understand these differences and that you can think about some relationships you've had and where they might fit in all this. The most, most, most beautiful thing is to find all three in one person, but it very rarely happens. And our work on this planet is not just to come and enjoy and feel loved and adored and that's it. No. Planet Earth is the planet of learning, it is the planet of progression, it is the planet of raising our vibrational consciousness, it is the planet where our soul is growing, and it is the only planet of emotions. All other planets function more by intellect, they are very intellectual, many are almost like computers. But on this planet, the soul lives emotions and grows through emotions. Because with more data in a computer, that computer doesn't receive greater emotions. Emotions come through suffering, through discussion, through acceptance, through forgiveness, through assimilating differences. The most important phrase in a relationship or with friends is: "We accept that we have different opinions." And this is so complicated, it's such a small phrase, it's so easy to say, but so complicated to practice.
So we come here to feel all these emotions and to raise our consciousness, to help raise our family's, to help raise humanity's, and thus all grow as a planet.
There are many karmic relationships where you only return what you have received, but couples get stuck in returning, which is not the goal. The goal is to live the same thing you gave in a previous life or what you received in a previous life, but now with opposite roles. Because it can happen that in one life the partner was very violent and in this life you are violent, without realizing it. Or realizing it, but not knowing how to act on it, and you stay there thinking: "With no partner have I ever felt so violent. What's happening here?" So these are simply karmic relationships where violence has already been lived and now it had to return — not to live it and repeat and repeat, but to resolve it. And once it is resolved and once forgiveness occurs, it is not necessary to continue this relationship. It could be that the relationship is healed and you truly believe you should continue and it stays as a love forever, and these relationships work. But it could also be that the prenatal agreement was only: "Let's live this time and try to resolve it, to forgive and move on."
What is the end, end, end of everything? The end is unconditional love, but on two sides, like a highway where we have two directions. Nothing is ever unidirectional, so neither is love. If you only have love for your partner and you always give and give and give, even if your partner may be the best in the world, if you don't know how to receive, your partner can't give to you. This is very important because many people forget these things and say: "But I gave and I give and give and give and they left me. Why?" Because you never allowed this person the pleasure of giving you something beautiful. Because you always position yourself as "I am more because I can always give," and it's not that you do it consciously. This is your subconscious, thinking you are good only if you give. No. No relationship can succeed if there is no balance. It doesn't have to be "I give you a glass of water and you have to give a glass of water," but you have to receive.
So we can call it the universe, God, or whatever you want. There is a law of karma, of life, that says: if you don't have love in two directions, you have an imbalance. If you don't know how to put one hand out to give and the other to receive, you are not in balance.
So only when you love yourself as much, unconditionally, as you love your partner and your family and your friends, only at this moment, at this point, do you have balance to move forward in your life. When one is more — and it's not good to have either point be more. If you love yourself more, you only look out for yourself, you don't care about the fate of your friends, your family, your partner. That's another imbalance. And if you only look out for them but never think about your own needs, that's also an imbalance. These are the two points of unconditional love. And when we reach the point of balancing them — which can never be exactly equal because we're not in a pharmacy — but with these waves they find balance and we know that today we give a little more, tomorrow we will receive a little more, and life goes on like that. And we want to and we know how to forgive — not forget, because we must learn lessons — but we know how to forgive ourselves and forgive others.
So at this moment, it's not drama, it grows. And every time we reach this point, we grow more. And when among all of us, as communities, as cultures, as religions, as countries, we achieve this balance between giving and receiving, between loving yourself and loving others, the whole planet is growing. And this means that the Twin Flames started working well, that they found each other and succeeded. Because with many, many, many small acts, energy is created that begins to help the Earth rise.
Because speaking of these times, before we started, someone asked what 2021 will be like. It will be different. It will be more positive, but obstacles will continue. But by advancing through 2020, learning what we are learning now with these obstacles, we will have more strength to enter 2021. All of you who want to get married or do this engagement thing, before getting married, I advise you not to do it before New Year. 2020 does not give good vibration for any beginning. So all of you who can postpone it to January 1st onward, it is much better for everyone. I can announce that in my family we will have one of these ceremonies for my son, so in January.
Ok, you could start with questions, so I know where the interest lies.
Just yes, it's a soulmate or someone asked. I have a question. My question is what is the difference between karmic love and non-karmic love.
Karmic love is a love that is already planned with a plan before birth. So you have agreed with this soul to meet, to be able to experience love, to be able to learn or resolve something that was not resolved from another life. It means you already had love with this partner and something remained to be resolved, or you simply agreed: "Let's live this life together or a part of this life together, because it was beautiful and we love each other," but you are also learning. Each one has a lesson — bigger, stronger, or less strong. And non-karmic love is when you fall in love with a new person — it is not censored nor pre-agreed, it is not a love that existed before, it is a new love and you are creating new karma, you are creating new karma for future lives. Because you start from zero, from a love, and it may be that you work and say: "I have a problem with too much possessiveness, I am always too controlling with my partners." And this soul tells you before birth, in a meeting that we all have: "And I have the problem that I always have people who control me and I accept it." "Ah, very good! We can work on it." And you tell them: "I promise I will give you a lot of, good choice of being very controlling." So you start from zero, but already with roles like in a play to see how you will overcome this problem that you had with other partners in other lives. But your love is for the first time on Earth, so that's why it's not karmic. And the other is karmic because it has already been lived. But all, all relationships serve for you to learn something.
Another question, how do you recognize a life partner in this life?
Sometimes you can feel it immediately and sometimes not. Sometimes you need... We can't go through life with a flashlight. You know there are many stories like this? There's a story of a thief who is under the street lamp, the lamppost, looking for something. And they ask him: "But what are you looking for?" "My keys, I dropped them." "But did you drop them here?" "No, but here I have light." So often we are looking for something we have lost or something we want under the light, but it's not there, because it wasn't lost there. And what is hidden is usually not hidden under the light, it's hidden in our subconscious, it's hidden in other things. So we can't go through life looking for the life partner relationship, the soulmate relationship, the twin flame relationship, and if it doesn't immediately fit into these three, "I'm not going to fall in love."
I had an anecdote about a therapist — and the funniest thing is that she's a therapist, and you think a therapist understands a little more — but then, also in my own case I see that sometimes we understand less, we struggle with this, understanding our own emotions. So she told me: "You see, I know that in this life, I'm divorced, in this life I won't find my twin flame because he is already advanced, advanced to the fifth level and he won't return to Earth. So I on Earth will never have a twin flame again." I thought: "What a good excuse to not live life, to not let yourself be loved, to not let your emotions flow, to not love another person." So it's not good to be obsessed with finding a soulmate, life partner, twin flame. You have to live love, you have to let yourself be loved, you have to let emotions flow. I'm not saying I advise you to be like hippies, where every partner every night is your life partner, but letting yourselves love, yes, I advise that. Because many, out of fear of making their emotions visible and out of fear of accepting and assimilating another person's emotions, stay on the surface and say: "No, no, no, it's not my soulmate, it's not my twin flame, it's not my life partner." And you don't know — maybe this person also has the same fear. And... what are those creatures called that have pearls inside, in the sea? Oysters. Ok, two oysters met and they liked each other very much, and one thought: "If I open up first, what will happen to me? It might hurt me." And the other thought: "She doesn't want to open up." So neither opened up and they each went their separate ways. And neither felt love.
So when another person is presented with partners who don't like to communicate. If I have the same problem — I am so communicative and I get partners who are quiet — it means that you already had this problem from other lives and you have to resolve it so it doesn't appear again. It could be two things: one, that we truly had communication problems ourselves in other lives, that for some reason we didn't communicate; but it could also be that we have to help these people understand what communication is, because it may be that we agreed: "Look, you will come with your shadow of not communicating, and I — whose shadow before was that I didn't communicate — now I have to help you overcome this and learn how to communicate." Because there are many ways to communicate. It's not always just talking non-stop.
When do we stop reincarnating? At what point do we stop incarnating?
At the moment when we are already driving on the two-way highway, when we achieve that both lanes are communicable, that both lanes are fluid, and that in both lanes we feel unconditional love towards others and unconditional love towards ourselves. That we know how to take care of ourselves and let others take care of us, and at the same time know how to take care of others. At this moment we no longer need to return, but we can return as angels in human form. There are people who return as ama — we have already spoken of the ama of India — who only returns to give hugs, to give unconditional love. So there aren't many amas, but they do return and do humanitarian work, volunteer work on this Earth. And there are others who stay forever.
Now, in this very critical moment — which won't be for just a few months, I don't want to scare you, but you need to have strength for much longer — we will come out stronger from all this. But don't think that corona ends and everything is over. Other coronaviruses will return, we will have other confrontations and other obstacles, and it will be for years, not for months. So in these times we will need many more amas, many more healers like me, many more people who receive messages, because I receive and you receive, and it's more and more every day.
The other day I had a session with a client from Nepal and I was stunned, because in five years we see him as president of his country. And he called me for a session because he was doubting whether to run or not. So in five years we will see if the information was accurate. But I say: I feel proud to know in advance who will be president.
So in different ways, people come, souls come to help us. Souls from other planets and souls that have already lived on this planet, because it is a moment — it's a few years, they are long years — where we will need to create balance and raise vibrations.
How do we consciously learn in our own lives?
If I say the work of healers is more important, it's like self-promotion. But yes, sometimes it's very good to work with people who are therapists to understand where you've arrived. Because sometimes we go through life without questions. They say the answer is very clear if you have a clear question. And this is it: that we often have wrong questions about what we're looking for, what we want, where we're going. We don't have a clear question and therefore we don't get clear answers. And that's why therapists serve a purpose. But they are not, we are not always necessary. You can learn a lot from books, from movies, from talking to yourself, from standing in front of the mirror and saying: "Okay, what did I learn today? What did I learn from this discussion? What did I learn from this conflict?" And it's every day. I have something to be grateful for every day and every day I ask myself: "And what did I learn from this? Because I don't understand it, I don't see the logic." But within a few days, a few months, the same thing comes back to me with another person and then I begin to understand. And usually it's because we don't value ourselves and don't put love towards ourselves. And we need to look at this a lot: "Did I love myself enough today and give enough love to others?"
So that's how we can see our learning.
How do you understand the way of receiving when you are always the provider?
Like at the gym, sometimes I don't feel like going for a run in the morning and I thought: "I need to find motivation." And I've read a lot from people who dedicate themselves to all this, and people of age — they're not 20 years old, but I don't see 20-year-olds very motivated either — so it seems this has no age. Not having motivation for some things. And what I found, everyone says: don't look for emotion, apply discipline. So, if for giving and receiving, apply discipline. And you'll see that in a moment this will be something very normal, because we have it inside us. It's not that we don't have it, we don't come empty, we come with things in code, that we don't understand and don't know how to decipher. But when we start: "Okay, today I'll go, even if it's just one kilometer." And in five days you end up doing 15 kilometers every morning. "Today I will give to a person, I will support and help, but I also want to receive." And when you start the day like that, the day will be like that. And by the fifth day, you'll already understand that you start giving and receiving.
Meri, could you repeat please, because there was an internal personal doubt here. You were saying that this year it's not, well, not so good to get married, but from next year yes or not either?
Yes, yes, from January 1st onward, yes.
Ok, but then is it because this year all the energies are too much, everything is too strong, we are seeing too many things, many changes and learnings and next year we'll be a little more...?
No, not on the other side, but yes. I have a friend who planned to have a wedding this year and planned to have two weddings: in her country and here, because her boyfriend is Indian and she's from Europe. And she was complaining that her mother-in-law went to an astrologer in India and he told her that no date this year is good, that she has to do it from January. And my friend said: "No, no, no, no astrologer is going to tell me when to have my wedding." Weddings are banned here because of corona and in her country she couldn't because the number of people she can invite is limited. So she's forced to do it next year, and it's much better for her. But this is it: astrologers also see things that are coming; they can't see exactly what it is, but they see that it's a negative influence and that everything that is made official this year — whether starting a business, a new project, an association, or creating a marriage or a relationship — officially it's not good. Everything you have to sign, better sign from January 1st. So this year, better not change jobs, or change houses, or... that is, stay still.
Stay still?
Yes, make plans, plan. Or if you absolutely have to change, be very careful about what you sign, very, very careful. Because there are things we have to do; if it's for pleasure, better to wait.
Well, how funny, because I was going to get married this year, but it didn't work out. It wasn't working anymore. There's a question about whether it's good to divorce this year. That yes.
No, well... Divorce is always good if there truly is no way to resolve it. No, that we end before going.
And this, and you see, this year is affecting relationships, yes. This year is greatly affecting friendships, partnerships, family relationships. We are under fire. It's not corona, I think corona is the name for this whole crisis. It's not a virus that enters you for a certain sickness, it's a virus that enters all of us, it's in the air. I notice that people are starting to act very mean, in a way of answering badly, treating people badly, and it surprises me a lot, because you don't see a reason. If another person asks something kindly and this person responds very badly, and usually they're not like that. Think: what is this about. If corona travels through the air and negatively, we have to be stronger.
Ok, someone wants... Ok, no, no, no virus, except... Now I'm not, I'm not a scientist, I'm about emotions. So what I explain are always metaphors, don't take what I say so literally.
There's a question a little higher up that says: how can we attract, quote-unquote, our soulmate?
By working on ourselves. The more you work on yourself, the more you become the person you want to be, your soulmate will come. So if you want to be successful, or you want to be more affectionate, or you want to be more attentive, then when you become that person, the soulmate is closer to you.
In this space, or in this collective consciousness as we might call it — you know the term — where souls live, where consciousnesses live, in that place can they also fall in love, can they meet, can they find each other and plan and decide: "Let's live a life together."
Yes, yes, they can. Because souls attract each other, and these are those loves. But it can also be that they fall in love but not physically. That when we come down to Earth, this doesn't... it doesn't progress as a sexual love, but it stays as a platonic love, as a friendship love. And we can connect with this person and after a while say: "We'll stay as friends forever." We love each other, yes, but there's nothing more.
So all paths lead... To Sierra Marcelo and them, it will give my voice.
Yes, anything you have doubts about, if you want to contact Meri or something. The other day a girl contacted me because I posted it here, but she couldn't copy it. You can write to me through Internations or through WhatsApp, my number is in the event. And I have put several of you in direct contact with Meri.
Yes, I see my number has come up, okay? Ok, you can copy it. This is WhatsApp, not a call, so you can call me or write to me on WhatsApp. And with pleasure. I will schedule my appointments for tomorrow.
Yes, thank you very much.
A big kiss.
One question, did you record the presentation?
Yes.
Yes, they will send it then.
Yes, and I can also put it on the web, but now you're making my number, so they'll be there too.
Ah, ok, thanks.
Yes, with pleasure. Thank you very much for the presentation. See you later.
Thanks, Meri. Thanks. And have a good day, may there be light!